For Moms-to-be and New Moms

As we approach Mother’s Day, I wanted to focus on this wonderful group of women who give 110% of themselves to their families. I remember when I was newly pregnant with Aleyah, I really began to think about what I was eating because I wanted to start her off by giving her all the nutrients she needed to be healthy. Dr. Sears gives 10 reasons why and how a expectant mom’s diet needs to change. BTW- while a pregnant mom is eating for two, she really only requires an extra 300-500 a day. Pregnancy is not an excuse to overindulge- you’ll be sorry for eating all that pizza and ice cream when you begin working off those extra pounds after giving birth.

As a new mom, I felt strongly about the importance of breastfeeding. I was blessed to have a strong support system that allowed me the opportunity to nurse all three of my children for 12+ months. Study after study shows countless benefits of breastfeeding for both mom and child. Dr. Walt Larimore has many blog posts concerning the studies that have been conducted on breastfeeding.

Here are just some of the benefits of a breastfed baby…

-stronger immune system

-lower risk of allergies

-less gastrointestinal infections

-stronger bond with mom

-lower risk of obesity

Benefits for Mom…

-bonding with baby

-lower risk of diabetes

-lower risk of cancer

-lower risk of cardiovascular disease

-loss of postnatal weight

Breastfeeding is the best for mom and baby. I would encourage any new mom to breastfeed if at all possible. While it does require a bit of a sacrifice on mom’s part, its benefits for both mom and baby are so worth it! I’ve never heard a mom say that she regrets nursing her little one!

The Sabotage of Your Goals

Recently, a friend had made the effort to provide a healthier version of a special treat for her child. Even after seeing him enjoy this treat, a family member gave him the “real” thing. Needless to say, this mom was a bit frustrated. I completely understand that feeling. As a mom who encourages eating whole and clean foods, I have had to take many stands for my decision to keep them away from unhealthy choices, and I can relate to feelings of  frustration when I feel undermined. I think the number one reason others seem to interfere with our eating and exercise goals is lack of understanding. However, I also believe that people sabotage these goals because they are unhappy with their own choices when it comes to living a healthier lifestyle. Nutritionist, Cynthia Sass, offers some advice when dealing with people who are non supportive of your eating and exercising habits.

For the Love of Running

Fridays have recently be reserved for a long run with my SIL. Just last week, she injured her back pretty badly, so our runs are on hold for at least a month. On our runs, we have discussed the importance of running in our own lives. I am a runner, but not much of a writer, so when I began Kristin Armstrong’s Mile Markers, her intro included two paragraphs about her relationship with running. As I read this, it was as though she had put into words what I could not have expressed. So the answer I now have for why I love to run will be answered with this…

So to understand me and what’s behind the pages of this book, first of all you have to understand why I run. That’s the hardest and easiest question. It’s like asking why we love who we love. We love them because of all the precious moments we have spent together, because of all the intimate ways they understand us, the subtle acts of kindness and grace they offer us, the way they accept us- good and bad- the way they offer us insight when we are stuck in a bad place, the way they keep us humble and make us feel great all at the same time, the way their presence is our insurance that we will never be numb…because we are at ease in their company, because we love them even when we don’t like them, because we like ourselves better when we’re with them, because they lead us to our truest selves. Because we can’t imagine not.
If running were a person, that paragraph would be my love letter. Running has taken me in and continues to comfort, heal, and challenge me in all kinds of magical ways. I am not a good runner because I am me; I am a good me because I am a runner. There is nothing impersonal about anything when I relate it to running. Running is connected to my family, my parenting, my spiritual life, my fitness, my friendships, my health, my sanity, my peace. I can clear my head and solve problems when I run, or make peace with not knowing. I can find beauty, or at least redemption, no matter what. (from the chapter titled “Warm Up” in Mile Markers, by Kristin Armstrong)

All You Can Eat Doesn’t Mean You Should

Cruising seems to be synonymous with the phrase “all you can eat”. The ship’s culinary team does offer a large variety of our favorite foods and, for the most part, they do it well. If you aren’t careful, you can walk (or waddle) away gaining several pounds. If you gain just one pound (3500 calories), that would take the average woman six hours of running to burn just that one pound! Here are some tips I used to keep the weight off (and I did- not one pound gained).

  • Stay hydrated! Drinking water keeps your energy high and helps keep you feeling full.
  • Don’t drink your calories! The ship offered a souvenir cup that allowed you to have unlimited soda refills for $6/day. And when you pay, you want to get the most bang for your buck so you will drink more than usual.
  • Our ship had a “Vitality” menu. These were lower calorie meals and were marked on the menu so you could knowingly make a healthy selection.

    Seared Sea Bass with Lentils

  • Indulge a bit! You can treat yourself to a couple of special choices. Just make sure they are something you really want rather than just eating it because it’s in front of you or its available. My indulgence was an authentic Mexican meal – garbanzo bean soup, chicken nachos shared with my husband, and sizzling chicken fajitas. Even our friend commented on how much I ate at lunch!

    Chicken Nachos

  • Plan, plan, plan! Earlier in the day, before you dine, take a look at the menu (preferably when you are NOT hungry) and decide what you would like and stick with it. If you are at the buffet, look at the all the selections before you start loading your plate. Choose the items that you really want and enjoy those. Fill your plate mainly with healthy foods and take just a small serving of high caloric dishes. If you have an option to be served rather than going to the buffet, that may be a better choice if that will keep you from overloading your plate.

    My typical breakfast - egg white omelet

  • Remember how sluggish and miserable you feel when you are stuffed from overeating. Having a dysfunctional digestive system on a trip is no vacation at all if you ask me!

♫ Just Keep Swimming, Just Keep Swimming ♫

Cruise ships offer such a wide variety of physical activities that there is NO excuse for not moving. Whether it is an organized activity provided by the cruise staff, or just an open opportunity to do something on your own, you can find a place to burn off those extra calories that you will be swallowing. Since you were unable to accompany me on my cruise, live vicariously through our high energy moments on and off the ship…

*We took full advantage of the gym. (30+ cardio machines, free weights, nautilus machines, and classes).

The view from my treadmill

I rang the bell!

*I scaled the rock climbing wall high above the ocean blue.

*We prepared for future retirement as I put a beating on my husband in shuffle board (score: 42 to -2)!

*Scott and Dave played a couple of rounds of putt putt.

From one adventure to another!

*The excursion we booked in Cozumel was a ropes course that included two hours worth of zip lines, wall repelling, rope and plank bridge crossing, rock climbing, and snorkeling. (Very fun and exciting!)

30-60 foot towers

The organized activities onboard included dodge ball, basketball, soccer, and volleyball tournaments. (There was also a belly flop competition if you considered that a sport.) Also, take the stairs as much as you can. They definitely offer a great extra little heart-pumping action.

From Paradise to Paradise

In the dining room

We have docked and stepped back into reality. What a wonderful, relaxing, and refreshing time we had!   It seems that we did so much, yet did so little all at the same time. We are vacationers who like to relax by taking advantage of our free time and putting it into action. We like to “do” rather than totally veg. I enjoyed having the opportunity to pick up my magazines and books and read without interruption. I am continuing to read Kristin Armstrong’s Mile Markers. This sampling of her blog has encouraged me to strive to do one thing that seems to elude me- living for the moment. I am a planner. From creating my grocery list to filling out my calendar for the year to come, I like to know what’s next. In that though, I often lose sight of what’s now. A number of Kristin’s blogs are about her enjoying her time with her kids, her family, and her friends. In her post titled “Right here“, she ends with this thought…

I was struck by the reminder that no matter how many thoughts my brain can tick through in succession, I can only be present in one place at a time. So I have a new question to ask myself, “Where is your heart?”  The only acceptable answer is, “Right here.”  If my heart is somewhere else, I’m going to go there and join it. So whether I’m pouring my love into a child, helping with homework, writing a column, combing out tangles, in downward facing dog, walking the dog, running up a hill, or being part of a conversation, the same answer applies. 

The more I ask myself the question, the more present I become.

So, as I disembarked from the paradise of cruise life, I realized that I am walking back into the best paradise this side of Eternity- my home, surrounded by my husband and my three young children. They demand a lot of my energy at their ages (including my husband), but one day, my kids may not even want much of my attention. So, right now, I will rejoice in the moments that we do share. (I’ll even try at bath time- that has always been my Achilles heel!)

Yet you do not know what your life will be like tomorrow. You are just a vapor that appears for a little while and then vanishes away. James 4:14

Cozumel

Sunset

Treadmill Workouts

While I much prefer to run outdoors, we are all forced to stay indoors to exercise at some point. So, in honor of my uncle who has no safe streets on which to run and also for me since I will be cruising later this week, here are several treadmill workouts: 60 minutes, 30 minutes, 20 minutes, and even a climbing workout. It’s easy to set the “cruise control” on the treadmill, but it so much more beneficial to vary your speed and incline in order to maximize calorie burn. Hope this gives you some new ideas!

You are Invited to a Field Trip to Whole Foods!

My friend Sarah and I would like to invite you to join us as we head to Orlando on Saturday, May 14th. Our plan is to leave around 10:00 and have lunch at Season 52. This is a great restaurant where they use only fresh, seasonal ingredients and all menu items are 475 calories or less. You will not be disappointed- I promise! Then we will be heading down the street to Whole Foods to do some shopping. This is the Saturday after Mother’s Day, so hand the kids over to the husband and say, “See you later!” and join us for some girl time! Let me know if you would like to join us.

Regroup and Refocus

Losing heart is something we all experience. I’m thankful that God’s Word has refreshment for my soul so that I can refocus on the task He has called me to!

Spring- A Time to Retrain Your Tastebuds

One interesting fact that I have discovered in my reading and research is how Americans have become desensitized to natural flavors because of the processed foods we often eat. No longer does an autumn apple or a summer peach satisfy our “sweet tooth”, we have to have that apple pie or that peach cobbler (with ice cream of course) in order to quench that sweet craving. It has taken me many years to retrain my taste buds and hence my cravings, but now I do not crave those too sweet or too fatty foods. I also know that if I do have something sweet, I must tell myself that one small piece is it- no second helpings or leftovers or my want for sweet treats will quickly be revived.

Here are some tips from http://www.todaysdietitian.com. Click here for the whole article. (and disregard the term “evolutionarily” :))

To successfully retrain clients’ palates, Blatner (a dietitian) uses the following three techniques:

• increase availability and accessibility by purchasing more wholesome foods and keeping them easy to grab;

• practice patience and persistence by repeating exposure to healthy foods daily; and

• try flavor-flavor training by pairing unliked foods with liked flavors to authentically start liking unliked foods.

“For the fruit example, I would have patients buy more fruit and keep it easy to grab, aim to eat 2 cups of fruit every day, and experiment with fruit-based desserts such as broiled bananas with a drizzle of honey, grilled peaches with a dollop of low-fat yogurt, and baked apples with cinnamon,” Blatner says.

“There is a saying I use when working with patients: ‘The more you eat something, the more you want it.’ So if you eat lots of fast-food hamburgers and fries, you want more of them,” she adds. “But on the other hand, if you begin to eat lots of salads, you will soon crave salads.”

Pelchat agrees: “If you really do stick to a different diet, less processed foods and more whole foods, your preferences will change and your cravings will also change with time. The old ones will never go away. But we know that people who change their eating habits [eg, begin to eat more fish and salads] begin to crave those things if they’re no longer available. So [people] seem to be able to learn new cravings. And with time, the frequency of the new cravings should increase and the frequency of the old ones should decrease as the old environmental cues go away.”